“Just When I Think I Have All The Answers, They Change The Questions!”

Thought for today: Humility is something to b e sought after, if we are ever going to get over compulsive spending, debting, and underearning. A member shares: “Divorced when I came into DA, I had to pay half my income in alimony and child support.  But the toughest part of the divorce was that my […]

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Learning From Bankruptcy

Thought for today: What happens after bankruptcy is over?  The saying “If nothing changes, nothing changes” may apply. A member shares: “I was a kid when my family declared bankruptcy.  Credit card debt for business expenses had become untenable.  Payrolls couldn’t be met for their business.  IT was a mess of confusion and angry phone […]

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Overcoming Denial, Having an Epiphany and Accepting Prosperity.

One member talks about going through a humiliating bankruptcy. Being cross-examined by attorneys in the judges chambers, she became upset, began to cry, and got angry. She felt cornered and ashamed.  Years of panic bubbled up into her automatic fight-or-flight responses.  Nothing seemed to work this time. “Having my own business, I had gone through three […]

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